YOu handled that PERFECTLY!!!!!!!! Absolutely perfectly!!!!!!! She doesn't want to talk...that means she has to face the reality, it is easier to face just her feelings right now and just do what she is feeling.
This is it. Make it count, h4h. Be strong and tell her like it is. She needs to see the reality of it all now. If you don't tell her and help her see it, she will move on.