I appreciate all of your concern. I honestly dont' think H would ever law a hand on me. He does not want to get arrested. That could have him lose his job and any chance he may have of getting a better job. But still he acts so strange, so you never know.

I didn't explain my L's comments very well. When I asked her about H's crap in the garage, she said the first concern she had was getting H out of the house. Once he was gone she would talk to me about his stuff.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08