Hope4us struggle, part 7

[Hope4us]

Thanks WDID. Hmmmm, next steps....

Moving back into OUR bed. Not for ML, but for the closeness of it (don't get me wrong, ML would be a bonus).

Reading "Not just friends" and "Surviving an Affair".

For now, no heavy R talks, but an "I want to try to make our marriage work" would be nice for her to say.

Counseling and Retro are definitely things I'd like to do in the future, but W has said many times "I don't believe in that stuff". Don't know if that was the affair talking or not, but she's not really one to open up to people she doesn't know.

I know WD takes a while...I know...I KNOW...but after over a year of working my a** off changing what she has complained about and getting NOTHING in return, I just get frustrated at the pace of things. When will I get the things that I need?