I'm happy to hear you had a good time camping. When I say this post, I decided to take my three kids camping and white water rafting on the weekend of the 26th. We used to do it every year, but not for the last couple.

I totally understand how you are feeling and that up and down feeling about progress and backsliding. It is so much easier to take that positive DB step then to sustain it. I always have the best intentions when I try something, but then I seem to semi-cave in and not follow through.

It is difficult when there is a 3rd person in the mix. My W has a OM and seeing that justs eats away at you. I know I have to stay out of that (and I do) but it is hard to be patient hoping for that relationship to fail.

So, I continue to dedicate myself everyday to working on myself and my relationships with family and friends. It helps, but I am such an impatient DAM.


M: 52
W: 45
M: 21 yrs
D: 20
S: 17
D: 15
OM Started 02/2008
Bomb: 5/1/2008
W Moved out: 6/10/2008