I've come full Circle/LTA & MLC 9

[kat727]

I have a summer cold. Nothing worse than feeling blech when it is nice out. I think I got it from all the stress!

After our talk on Monday night all the kids went with H. He tried to talk to them about helping me out and attitudes(Whatever). H didn't expect them to let the floodgates open though. D9 told him she only half loved him now because what he is doing is wrong. She said she half hates him too. S15 talked about how all of these things they are telling him are because it is how they feel, not some words that Mommy fed them.(This is H's excuse for anything they say that he doesn't want to hear).

I am so glad that they tried to talk to H. Not for my marriage but for them. Keeping all of that anger, sadness and frustration inside is not a good thing and it might even help their Dad see the damage he has done to them.

kat