Is it MLC ?

[Peaches40]

Hi Smurf thanks for the reply. It doesn't matter your right. I find myself in this position and the emotions are the same so what label I want to put on it doesn't matter.

Lodo yes I am here. Took your advice and read a lot on MLC and seems to be the culprit here. He told me he is leaving this week and called me outside to talk. When he said that I just laughed at him and walked away. He yelled at me that I should stop and listen or I won't have a home or a vehicle. It comes with his job you see.
When he stated that I looked at him and said. What is the point of listening to this. It's threats, and lies. You have lied to me and your boys for three years. Now listen to me be a man and get out. You have no license you have no money and no real job. No respect of our kids. So just do what you have to do and no more talk.
Then he started yelling about things and told him. Just like your father. Have to find a young girl and dump your whole family he would be proud of you. Told me normal people wouldn't have acted like this! I was amazed. So, your normal denying we sleep together, telling you love and then in front of this girl you lie? That is normal? Telling lies to you kids for 3 years, denying that your sleeping with her. You know I didn't think so before but, watching interaction of you and her Sunday I know you are. So don't talk to me of normal when your so deep in a fog you don't know what is up or down. The difference is that I am not a lier or a cheat and can hold me head up. So don't lecture me. It's about time you standup and be a man and leave. That is the best thing you could do for your family. As you son says your a degenerate.

Nice conversation wasn't it. Sorry no more loving detachment for me. I don't talk to him nor do I get dinner wash his clothes do one thing for him. I do however act like he isn't there. What is hilarious he no money to leave and no car. Always has been full of crap and still is. So making my plans now since I am not going to live this way. Would be better alone than with this jerk.

Peaches