I can't imagine wanting a divorce, being involved with another man, and intentionally planting one on my soon to be ex-husband and making suggestive remarks... Do these people realize how confusing their behavior is? If we were in their shoes, wouldn't we at least be clear with our intentions? So baffling.
Does your wife do the same kind of work as you? Is that how you met?
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence