Sometimes I feel that my H just doesn't see why an effort has to be made. Awhile ago I told him that I would like him to just hold me sometimes, give me hug, nothing silly, just a normal hug, but still nothing. Our contact is a cuddle in the morning before we get up, and one before we go to sleep, and nothing in between. Also he just can't kiss me nicely, again he has to act silly, now I don't mind it from time to time, but its all the time, I just feel that there is no true loving touch or tenderness. I sometimes, alot of the time I just need that. So I have just given up asking or pointing it out, because it makes no difference.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
