3 Yrs with H in MLC - Feeling Powerless Now

[Sanderika]

momof2girls and breton 39,

I believe he does miss me....We have been together for 29 years.

I want him home soooo badly. PLEASE READ MY POSTS FOR WHOLE STORY, it has been quite a 3 year period...OMG!!!!

If he doesn't want to come home, I wish he would initiate the D. He won't do it. I can't figure out what he is hanging on for.

Is it: Because this is easy, he doesn't have to, fairly sure I
won't start the process,

For financial reasons, doesn't want to split
property with me 50/50, (we are financially very
well off),

Because he doesn't want to have visitation
schedule with S12,

Because I am his "safety net", as long as he's
married he doesn't have to marry her (OW is
pushing hard for a D wants to marry him)

Other reasons????????

One thing I would really like to know....How long will OW wait for a man who won't D? What will it take for OW to get him to do it?

OW is a typical MLC's Babe. I hate her and everything she stands for.

In the 3 years they have been together our S has never met her. H doesn't push the issue either.

I really do not want to throw in the towel, but I am getting very restless. I am lonely and sad. I do not want to be alone anymore. My ideal would be to have him come home. I don't see that happening as long as this Macho biker chick is hanging on to him.

Sanderika