Sucking it up does not sound good to me. Maybe "correct TIMING" is a better option? You need to address issues that bother/worry you. You just need to be sensitive about when you bring things up and how you do that. Ignoring issues doesn't sound wise to me. I hope you are not falling back to familiar patterns. You know where those lead, right? Your D is a motive for both of you, not just you... Love K
