Agree to a divorce? Do you have a choice? When I got served there was no choice.

If I were in your shoes I'd probably just change the subject or say something like, "Of course I will when I get a chance...don't worry it will get done..." and then, I'd just be "too busy" to finish off any of the D stuff, while trying to reestablish a friendship with my H. How long does does divorce take in your state?


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.