Nope. Sorry, to butt into your thread but NOPE. I've seen you going down this road for some time but this really gets me for some reason.
You are married. She keeps acting like your not in public. It is most probably NOT only the dancing arena. Does she tell people you are married outside of that venue? If not, then why not? Does she wear her wedding ring?
You are either married or not. That should be your view. If she wants to have a women only party while your gone then fine. If it's co-ed, then you're there and act as a husband or it doesn't happen. You CAN dance and let people know you're married. She just doesn't get to be hustled and justled as if she's single. She's sending out strong "I'm single" vibes when she should be sending out "I'm married, but I like to dance and have fun in public, too".
