He called last night to cancel our "talk" meeting which had been planned for 3 weeks. He said he had urgent dental treatment.I know he has been in a lot of pain recently but to book on that date? Also he said we could reschedule but "not next week." In other words more avoidance. He knows I finish work in 3 days and need financial settlement. I am now at the end. He said " I miss my friend" but he is clearly not considering my desperate situation. If we arrange another date and meet I fear it will be more ambivalence and procrastination. I have battled for this marriage and been calm, friendly and validating for 18 months. With a heavy heart and many tears I have decided to divorce him. I love him still. Told him that last night the reply was silence. Sorry this is such a sad post. Feel I cant give any more, He was unfaithful with many women for 25 years and I ignored it- my fault I was in denial.We are co-dependant and this is going to hurt like h-l.
