Real Life part 6

[Starshyne]

I wanted to let you all know how things went down tonight. Happy to say that it was very uneventful. H calls at 11:55pm but I don't pick up the phone. He leaves a message about how he thought he got to sleep in the house one more night and he wants in to get his clothes and stuff. If he had came to the porch he would have seen that I had suitcases packed and waiting for him.

He comes to the door and my Dad answers. He says that he wants in the garage. My Dad tells him that he had 2 weeks to get his things out of the garage and it is too late at night for that. H looks for the "hidden" key. But little did he know that I took it away this evening. So H gets in his car and drives away. Not sure what else may be in store, but thank goodness that is it for now.

lwb--I have been saying for several months now I am suspect H is on drugs. Unlike some of the WAS here, mine showed NO signs of a MLC or anything strange until I started to suspect OW. It was literally a drastic change overnight. He turned into someone I loved and who loved me to someone who was a jerk in a matter of one day. A lot of his behavior would be easily explained if drugs were involved. But I will never know.

Let me try to explain the D thing. The judge signed the papers on July 2. I have the divorce decree and by all acounts of the law I am divorced. However, H or I have 30 days to appeal the court and contest the divorce. So the divorce wont' be final until August 2nd. Nothing will happen on August 2. H doesn't even know that he could appeal and I sure am not going to do it. It really doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me. I also can't believe that from May 19 when H and OW told me they loved each other and H wanted to be with her until now has only been 2 months. I had no clue someone could get divorced that quickly.