1. Notice how you just ignore what she's saying? 2. Notice how you just keep focus on your goal? 3. Notice how childlish she sounds? 4. Eventually this WILL wear her down and she will start to turn to you...that will take a lot of time yet, but she will get there.
I can't imagine the OM is acting this mature. Right now she's hurt and scared and frustrated, she's looking for a MAN she can run to who will support her like that. BE that man for her. The OM will pale incomparison eventually.
Rent the Ten Commandments with Charlton Heston in it...use him as a model.
And NEVER break that role in front of her. If you have to get angry, do it in private, if you have to scream, do it in private.
Everyone has to break down and just play and yell sometimes, but she doens't want to see that in you right now. She wants a father figure...the phrase "man of my dreams" just is a dead giveaway here.
NEVER deviate from this and backslide in front of her. Don't say ANYTHING MEAN to her ok? Just tell her you love her and your family...it will wear that wall down I promise you.
NEVER backslide into a child in front of her. Its ok to laugh, but laugh as a man with a family, not as a carefree child.
