Chris, CONGRATS on a good Tuesday, & moving up to member status. maybe the key is, don't answer the phone.
You joined after I had gone on a weekend getaway with my mom. I posted that I wasn't going to answer my phone because every time I did, I got upset with how H. That was May 18th.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.