my soul mate is leaving (gone)

[bluerain]

Research the odds of it for yourself buster, Ive already given you statistics, I guess you dont believe me. So look for yourself. She is very confused right now, and she is doing everything she can to make you think that you dont have a chance, most of our spouses are. I told my H that I wasnt ready for a D, plain and simple. Hes not thinking clearly right now, and he cant give something as serious as our marriage the thought it deserves, and when hes ready to stop acting like a child we can talk. I probably shouldnt have added the last part, but I got a little out of hand.

You said that shes worried about being married in the eyes of God in the future, WTH? Shes committing adultery, disobeying a commandment and she is worried about how God will see her future M? This is a perfect example of how twisted her mind is right now. Can you see how her actions are violating her own principles and she is refusing to see it? She has her morality and what shes doing right now very seperated.

I dont know what to tell you buster, patience and time are both on your side right now. You will have bad days, everyone does, even when things are going along swimmingly, now you have a bad day, plus everything thats going on with your M. You know what to do, you do the right thing. You just have to decide what that is for YOU.