Hi Trixi - I don't have a lot of time to post right this moment, I promised DD she could get on her and she's *hanging* like a vulture ready to swoop! lol
I just wanted to tell you that I totally get where you're coming from with not planning out your weekends/time etc. I am the exact same way. I would much prefer to hang out at home, work in my garden, paint or read a book etc. Not to say I don't do fun things with my friends, but I don't need a lot of it to lift my mood. There have been times where I felt like Niki has stated, that my H could be interpreting it as me waiting with baited breath. In fact I know he did a few months ago because he said as much. Once we talked about it, he understood where I was coming from. BUT I did stop answering the phone every time he called. In fact I turn my phone to silent a lot in the evenings and then literally forget to turn it back on....its made him wonder.
