alright Mark, PDT i am backsliding here. she says if i want her to be happy I need to grant her the divorce. after the divorce she wants an annulment so she can be married in the eyes of God someday. she won't stop going out with this guy, or taking our 2 year old son around him. she is making me feel obviously like I have no chance. In regards to my feelings, I am as depressed and as desperate as when i first registered here back in june. I have a good time when i'm not with her, I haven't asked her to come back in almost 2 weeks, contact is minimal. I need a slap in the face. someone either to tell me "dude its over divorce her" or someone to inform of some fantastic astronomical odds that she's just saying this stuff because she's happy with him NOW but that its only temporary. i keep hearing she cares about me as a friend, not a husband.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
