I think I recall that you were not initiating before, or you were holding back because he was hesitant. Is that right? Why don't you do a little initiating? It doesn't even have to be ML, it can be a sensual massage or something wearing a hot lingerie.

what kind of initiating have you done recently?

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."