Confused and Bewildered

[7 Year Itch]

Thanks so much you guys for all the great advice! Kris, I'm totally going to check out that book.

Cookie... yeah, I think I've blown the sex thing! LOL

The major complaints he had are all things that have already been fixed or well on their way (he's even admitten that). The big hurdle is that he doesn't feel anything for me, and can't imagine ever loving me again. All the "stuff" that got us here is really fixable, and much lead to an undiagnosed depression that I'm pretty sure was in after my 2nd D. I'm hoping with time he will come to see that the person he fell in love with is still here. I was sick temporarily, didn't treat him well during a very stressful (lots of other family stuff going on) 2 years, and will just give it time to renew.

Well, he didn't end up coming tonight. HE was on call tonight and literally got called out right at the end of his regular day, so he went right onto a sex assault scene and is still there. Anyway......... so the girls were very sad. HE sounded really bummed too. So he'll probably now come tomorrow or thursday to make up for it. Probably good to have a night off after our last 3 "busy" nights. LOL

Now trying to debate sending a little goodnight text message or not? Nothing big. Just thought I might send a message like. "Don't work to hard! Goodnight".

What do you think?

Chris