Hi Upside,

I was half-joking with my comment, but I agree with you that what you've been doing is working well, so why change it?

Your evening sounds nice, lots of positives in there. Focus on those for what they are- he's not clucking yet, is he?

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08