Hi ST- Thanks for commiserating with me. It helps.
Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
So, my suggestion is to do what you did...act as if...and start working on your sex-life. What's holding you guys back on that? sorry, I have forgotten if you've already said.
I don't know what's holding us back, probably a combination of things.
Hey Upside!
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I can relate completely to your trust issues. I had them coming into my M (my first H cheated and lied continually). After time, I finally begain to trust my H but then WHAMO!!! I don't know how I will be if my H ever moves back in with me.
That must have been really hard to trust someone again after the way your first h treated you. It's so hard to get past the lying. I want to trust him, I really do, but those doubts are always there, in the back of my mind.
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maybe it is time to plan another little getaway with just your H if possible.
We've talked about it and I have a friend who has offered to watch the kids for the weekend. We may go for our anniversary in Sept.
