Hi Addie. I think your H is conflicted in what he wants and maybe how to get it. He seems like he thinks in order to be happy he always needs companionship. Has he ever been alone or has he always been in an R in some way or another?

I wish he'd take the plunge and not just "look into" C. I guess he will when he's ready.

I think you need to let him hit rock bottom with this. I don't know much about MLC but I read that they need to hit the lowest before they can get better.

I'll say a prayer for your H Addie.

Last edited by JenInVen; 07/16/08 01:39 AM.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

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