went to mediation....told lawyer i didn't want to end this relationship. wife asked if i was "going to fight her on this" I said "well its a matter of opinion but some say you could be fighting me" all in all, i didn't agree to anything at mediation. of course, as soon as it was over, instead of talking to her parents about the meeting, she drove straight to OM's house (i was passing her and decided to see for myself where this guy lives) yes I followed her to see where he lives. I believe I have a right to know, especially if i want to have a word with him sometime. maybe it wasn't right to follow her, but I knew where she was going, didn't care she was going there really, needed to know WHERE the evil lurks. of course she went to him right away because everyone but him is on my side. she's being ultra friendly despite my not wanting D. . . mediator told me I don't have to pay any mortgage if i'm not living there. (sweeeet) i bet that made her shake in her boots. she'll come around, even if its not back to me. MarkF, read those articles, i really appreciate it.. between seeing my son, working midnight to 8am, haven't had time to hit the library. for the first time in 15 years i've been hitting church instead. meeting with the pastor tomorrow. she asked what I had a meeting about, i simply replied "none of your business"
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
