Wow.. Ya'll are extremely creative in your evilness.. ha!
Ok.. ROOT.. you're on.. I'm going to think of a good text to send and will let you know what happens.
Originally Posted By: theoden
"You know, for our daughter's sake I want us to be friends, and I'm sure we'll both be OK once the divorce is final and I want nothing but your happiness." Or some such nonsense. It'll screw with his mind -- he'll be thinking of you while he's with her. And....she might smell the perfume and see the lipstick. Either way, the wonderful weekend will probably have some fly in the ointment.
Not sure I have it in me to be like that in person.. Maybe something to work on.. kind of like rehearsing for a play
Another observation - all along ow has been infiltrating my life, home, etc with her little antics.. Now that I've been pushing back and setting boundaries around "my" home and what is allowed here, stbx doesn't know what to do. Without realizing it, I guess I've been feeding ow's insecurities by making stbx "choose" who to side with.
