1. wife asked me to stop, then changed her mind to "you're gonna have to cut back" all while smoking with me (hypocrite) she says now 'if you can't beat them join them
2. did not get negative
3. when she cheated, i dropped it instantly
4. marriage was going to be over
5. i was close but didn't choose them over human beings
6. wasn't miserable....i smoked to have fun, not to cover up or get away from problems....didn't have any problems....now that I do, i don't smoke.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
