Well let me ask a very STUPID question (duh), why are you going away with her if she's such a nutbag?
Don't feel bad for your friend. Someone has to inherit this crazy, and since you don't want to take her with you, your friend will have to figure this out for herself. Just think, she'll never forget you for this.
Moving and packing...ahhh I remember it well. Mostly I remember how much I hate doing it. It will all be a distant memory soon and hopefully you won't be doing it again for a very long time!
