Well.. he can't really say.. leave me alone. That would push us into the Divorce Zone. Splitting everything up.. and talking to the lawyers.
The salesman in me says follow the rule of 3. You need 3 "objections" before you respond. Once you hear "leave me alone" 3 times.. you listen.
Really to me.. we are tying to generate a response from him. Its a temperature check. He is gonna fight.. cause he is not buying what you are selling. I gotta expect his life will change with the D too.
You gave him the options... You overcame his objections. He has to decide what is best. Hopefully we meet in the middle. Realistically.. we are going to bulldoze the pool.
Look.. you are driving. I am the little voice in your ear. If something says stop.. let me know. Understand I am going to follow the rule of 3.
The Advanced DAM/DB poster would say....
I think you are doing great Christa.. keep up the good work.
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You have got to grab hold of this stuff in your mind. Once you get it.. it will be easy to hold onto. I can feed ideas.. for a long time.
Example..
I say show up with the pool guy/girl when you know he is going to be there. Whatever that person says is the best way.. do it.
Show up with a bulldozer in tow.. and knock all that stuff down.
Disregard all the pool talk.. and keep sending texts.
Call him up and say we need to sit down and talk about the pool. You tell me where and when.. I am there.
Call the lawyer and tell him/her get this going. It's time to move on.
Have a appraiser come out and appraise the house with the pool. Don't be there for that. Make sure the appraiser gets a good tip.
You lead.. I will help you do it.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
