Hi BR~ Just checking in to see how you are doing. I'm glad you went out and had fun...and looked hot!! It always makes me feel good to get dressed up and go out (the best thing is to put on a great bra from vicki's...victoria's secret...and hooker heels)My friend I met on here, Mike, would always laugh at me, because I'd say, it's time to dig out the heels n the vicki's...he knew that meant trouble!!!
As hard as it is for you to do, let God take care of the OW. Take the high road. Believe me, my H has OW, and I want nothing more than to call and tell her where to go and how to get there...but I know that will just get him more upset with me and that is not what I want, and it would just show him more reasons not to come back....as Cindy above said...Let go and Let God...
I am not sure if you have heard the serenity prayer that is used in alcoholic's anonymous but I say it a lot, it's just a GREAT prayer!....God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things that I can, and wisdom to know the difference.
I subscribe to rejoiceministries.org...they are awesome, and so isn't joelosteen.com...both lift you up when you're down...and give you courage to keep standing for your M.
take care of yourself. good luck with your motorcycle riding...I think that is awesome! biker chicks rock! ((BR)) christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"