No tacos. I'll just take the hot sauce. Just one minor critique. I'm not sure "avoidance" can automatically be translated as "disrespect". Disrespect to me is thoughtful and with a purpose, to put it in your face. Sometimes people go underground, because coming right out and saying "no" or coming up with some other explanation/excuse is the easier (not the right, but easier) path to take. How many men or women have the type of integrity or testicular/ovarian fortitude to say "No thanks". Also, PL may not want to hurt your feelings. Who the f*ck knows? My scheckel for this evening.
