My boys and my daughter are all having a hard time with the "nick" situation. My stbx actually called off the dinner with he and his kids because my kids threw a fit and told her they didn't want to meet him. I guess it was pretty ugly and my guess is she didn't handle it well, because I am still hearing about it.

I'm really trying to be careful around her for a few more weeks and not rocking the boat. I want to get the divorce behind me. I will admit that I am being selfish in a way. I want this done and over for me. I need it to be done.