I've come full Circle/LTA & MLC 9

[karen43]

Can we scratch out some parts and put the they had an affair and then initial it?

That would be funny.

Funny but true! I love that idea!! But then the L would probably have to print out a new one and charge a few hundred! Not as funny. Mine says our M is "irretrieavably broken" probably spelled that wrong but whatever. I do wish we could add a footnote or two for sure!!! Karen

[kat727]

That would be so perfect! I am sure I would get in loads of trouble for that. But the way I am feeling...

Anyway I am just waiting for my L to get back which will be next week sometime. H and his L will just have to stew because there is nothing I can do about it. OMG, Do you think I could be holding up a wedding?? Just a sad thought. Can't worry about that. Back to work.

kat

[karen43]

H and his L will just have to stew because there is nothing I can do about it. OMG, Do you think I could be holding up a wedding?? Just a sad thought.
kat

Oh, boo hoo, I feel so sorry for your H and the OW!!! Not! I think my H and OW will prob. do that too; since they both have kids and all. I mean he wants primary custody and I can't imagine he'd get that if he was living with the OW unmarried (not in my small town anyway)! But honestly our H's are such prizes, I sometimes think that will be our ultimate revenge on the OWs, don't you think? I think they'll all wind up miserable together (well for a little while anyway), and I have zero sympathy for them too! Karen

[lodo]

i agree with changing the docs - can we just add "because SOMEONE slept around" after the "X and Y find that their marriage is irretrievably broken"

lodo

[NoCodeBlues]

I'd want to stipulate, "H and W each contributed to injuring the marriage, but W euthanized it through an extramarital affair."

Or something along those lines.

[kat727]

Finally talked to my Dad after him being mad at me for a week or so. He just wants me to get it...H is gone, not coming back, get over it and move on. So much easier said than done. When he went through this they had only been marrried a couple of years and he caught them in the act. That would have made it easier to let go or so i believe.

Regardless, I know I tried everything that I could and I have no regrets over that.

kat

[lodo]

Regardless, I know I tried everything that I could and I have no regrets over that.

You did, kat, and you're a good person. It's hard to finally admit it's over, but you'll be okay. In a year you won't believe the difference.

Hey, I moved over to Surviving so stop by sometime. Don't forget about me!

lodo

[kat727]

You know I never could! I'll drop by later.

kat

[kat727]

just got an e-mail from H on the e-mail address I don't use much anymore. It was from Sunday. Said "ok, which e-mail do I use now?". I replied back that I really don't want to have any contact with you unless it is important and if that is the case you know my home phone number.

Just a bubble of emotion and I don't need him here now.

kat

[gForce]

Good for you. PDT couldn't have said it better. I know I couldn't.