She has tried to convince me that she is letting me free to find a better woman for myself. If she would want back, she would have to do an amazing job of explaining her change of mind and convince me why I should take her back after her betrayal of our family. She would need to seek counseling for herself and be willing to do marriage counseling together. I would need her to make me understand why she broke her vows to me. She also would need to convince me that she is truely remorseful for what she has done. And she would need to convince me that this would never happen again and I would require her to sign a post nuptial agreement which in my mind is two fold - it would protect me if my pot of gold comes around and it proves to me that my W wants me not for my money and security, but for me.
I know that is reaching for the stars and that it does not happen that way in piecing, but I am at the point where I dont want her as my W anymore. I have seen outside the fence and I know the grass can be greener on the other side.
