Originally Posted By: searching4help
Often times in the heat of the moment we forget that how we are reacting could have a negative effect on the goal of reconcilliation that we want.

Very true. Sadly, it wasn't a 'heat of the moment' moment... I've been stewing on several key issues for many months. A few things happened over the weekend to trigger the raw emotions. Well, okay, maybe it was a little heat of the moment. See how my brain goes round and round? Have I lost my mind?


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence