In fact one of my best friends is a shrink and she told me along with my therapist, that it wouldn't have mattered who ex was with, this would have happened. We are talking about weak people, not healthy or even morally grounded people.
It has taken me a long time to realize this. I used to think the world of this woman, and thought she was strong, honest, and the picture of integrity. To think of her as she is now has been very difficult. But I think it was important for me to see it, and impossible to let go without it.
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