How did your giving enable him so that he didn't learn to give back ? Did you ask him for what you wanted ? Is he normally a giver or taker ? My H was absolutely a taker. I was totally a giver. I had to teach him.
You asked pisces9, but it felt like you were talking to me! Actually, I think you said this very same thing a couple of days ago. "You have to teach him". Keep talking, wise Cookie. I'm learning a lot. Peace.
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
