I know what you mean. I like you "am over it" and just wish W would be straight up about her "friends".
As for the key logging
try www dot winpatrol dot com for a free software package.
I read this on the website which I thought was interesting.
Quote:
WinPatrol 14 Enhances Keylogging Detection
I recently wrote about a local man who was jailed for felony eavesdropping after admitting he stalked his ex-wife using a key logger program. The more I researched this case and heard about others, the more enraged I became. .
This is an important issue for many on both sides of the fence