"make sense ? How did you break the see saw ? How did your giving enable him so that he didn't learn to give back ? Did you ask him for what you wanted ? Is he normally a giver or taker ? My H was absolutely a taker. I was totally a giver. I had to teach him. "

i think i am in the same boat as you- he was the taker, i did all the work, i have a hard time asking for what i needed and i know i cant do that right now...
wow SC!!! how did you teach him? you backed off right? you even said you arent doing all you can for the R bc he needs to fill the void- thats what i am trying to do here \:\)

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