Well, another day and no word from Plant Lady...how shocking (he writes sarcastically) . If she doesn't want to face me she has my cell number and could easily kiss my ass goodbye that way. It really does annoy me when people choose the avoidance method as a first line of defence to deal with others. Part of me wants to go to her office next week and just say "you know, I have no problem with you choosing not to go to the church service with me but I do have a problem with being disrespected. By not letting me know, one way or the other, I felt disrespected. I hope you will treat others better in the future" I really hate just letting things go and pretending that it didn't matter and then leaving that person with the impression that throwing lines at people and brushing them off is an easy and effective approach to dealing with others. It's not, it's hurtful and largely unnecessary. By confronting the issue I may be saving some other guy from the "I need to think about it" syndrome, some guy who needs saving even more than I do! I know it is hard for a woman to say NO but it's also damn hard for a man to ask in the first place! I'm thinking this singles scene is not a real good fit for Whatis and his "doing what is right" mentality! Oh well, I've now vented and will move on bigger and better things...like Tacos, that's something that you can really depend on to deliver. When you say "no hot sauce" you get no hot sauce, when you're done you belch and it's all over. Tacos are the way to go!
Hey, what if she actually does approach me later in the week? How would I ever be able to face you guys again? Oh yeah, I don't face you, I write to you...there's a big difference OK, that's the last you'll hear of this little episode in my life. I'm done. Tacos anyone?

Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White