Originally Posted By: pisces9
here are some hugs smartcookie!!
((((((SC))))))) {{{{{{SC}}}}}}}
as for the diet dew and candy bars- that is a little hard to transmit! \:\) yuuuuuummmmm

thanks for the boost! i am actually seeing him today - it seems like every 2 weeks he wants to see me- kinda funny when you see the pattern and they dont! we are going for a hike...so i will just listen and validate...!

im happy you are here! neil sent me over \:\)


(((((pisces))))

The important question...When do you want to see him ?

If he wants to see you every 2 weeks, make him wait 2 weeks & 1 day. Then next time 2 weeks & 2 days. Let him miss you. Don't be available every time he asks, if he asks to see you on Monday, tell him you're busy Monday, but you're open on Wednesday. Play a teensy bit hard to get.

Do you fish ? Men would never fish, if the fish jumped into the boat. \:\)

hugs (I'm happy I'm here too)


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.