Laughing, I believe what your H has gone through is similar to what my H has gone through...and I agree that dick's inability (and my own H's) to own up to what he has done will help you and ME move forward.
....and we DO deserve more...
Hugs to you and thanks for posting that---it was brilliant!
Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller