and though I think it's important to respect her for who she is, it is certainly unreasonable for her to expect you to play a role other than that of a husband in your own home.
Naej and Aud, Thanks for helping me to clarify my position regarding the party and privacy issue. I knew in my bones that it was unfair, but haven't been able to articulate it.
I notice I get upset when she brings it up (and maybe it's important for her to see that). She backs off when she sees how upset this request makes me.
I'm not going to be chronically upset about it though. I don't understand where this is coming from. Any opinions I have would be speculation.
Things are moving in a positive direction and we maintain connection during the week with our dancing, are sleeping in the same bed, and have a trip planned together, so I won't give it too much thought and energy.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
