Originally Posted By: smartcookie
Now, if you build her love bank account big enough, you'll reap rewards that most men just dream about. \:\)
Hi cookie. My account got overdrawn because I did not communicate when the balance got too low. We have been enjoying each other's company for the last 3-4 days, and I'm purposefully telling Hus things like, "I enjoyed our talk yesterday".
The problem is, when I forget to do those things, we slip right back into old habits (where I feel like I'm the only one trying). The setback is often more painful than the original problem. In other words, I dwell on "How could I screw this M up again" instead of limiting my frustration to "I'm disappointed he didn't notice my haircut".
Was there an aha moment for you? Peace.


Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse
S:22, S:19, D:16
Filed Oct 08, dismissed
Filed again Jan 10, dismissed
Now Piecing
alter persona: SuperBoots