Month 3 sucks, month 3 was really hard. Focus on the results. Take notice of any small thing that seems positive, & realize that no matter how insignificant the progress seems, it's okay if it's going in the right direction.
My current sitch...things are really good. I'm in counseling alone one week, & with H the next week. H & I are enjoying slow & steady progress towards having the marriage that I always wanted, & he didn't even know was possible. I'm going to school on line & loving every second of it. H is actively job hunting, & putting together some consulting deals. The kids are happy & healthy & enjoying their summer break, hanging with friends, going to movies, & playing computer games. Life is good.
It's so sweet of you to ask what I need, that touches my heart, but guess what, (big smile) I'm getting healthy now & if I need something I'll ask for it. However, if you insist, I love diet mountain dew, almond joy candy bars, & hugs. So, if you want to run any of those over
big hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
I'm going to school on line & loving every second of it. H is actively job hunting, & putting together some consulting deals. The kids are happy & healthy & enjoying their summer break, hanging with friends, going to movies, & playing computer games. Life is good. 