I've just been reading through your latest posts. Absolutely awesome stuff.
When I started posting on this BB only a few months ago it was really with the aim of keeping alive and out here the things that I'd already learned, and trying to help others facing the problems that I'd faced.
Doing this has had the added benefit of cementing my own personal recovery.
But ... what I have been truly shocked by, is the many totally new things I have learned from you, DQ, Alimari and the others now posting here. Ideas that I have very much taken on board and believe will help my own marriage grow and change in exciting and pleasurable ways.
So, congratulations on the amazing work you have put into your marriage, Bagheera, and very many thanks for sharing it all with us.
S&A
"A man can be destroyed but not defeated" - from The Old Man and the Sea, by Ernest Hemingway.
Which I take to mean that every man has within him a spirit of relentlessness and optimism. Its already there; he just has to cultivate it.
