Can I tell you how jealous I am of how well things are going for you? Actually I'm very happy that your sitch seems to be on a definite upswing.
I am hoping in two weeks when my W comes home for a visit that I can some similar successes as you have. I will definitely be sticking to an "as if" attitude and keeping the 180's going. I believe it will be very positive if she doesn't feel pressured to R talk and can just enjoy the time she is here with our D's.
On a side note, I have a whole new issue to deal with regarding a younger sister who has some very serious marital problems right now. Posted it in my sitch earlier today.
