Hi I just read the rest of your post. Sorry I'm going fast because my computer is still down and I'm on a timed one.
I think you are doing great and much improvements but understand the difference between venting about something he is doing that is frustrating and talking to us about him in a way that is insulting him. Like calling him a child and saying he is not capable of owning a home. And some of the sarcasm like "drinking apparently" when you really don't know that.
I'm going to try to find an article I read and post it to you.
