"Being perfectly honest, I'm not giving all that I'm capable of though. Previously, I always put all the energy into the relationship. If I go back to doing that, H may feel that he can put less energy in than he has been.
Our goal is a power equal relationship. I'm matching him, as he's growing & changing. I'm giving him room to grow emotionally while I grow & evolve myself. I think it's working. "
that answers my question- i was the giver and BROKE the see saw...that is my fear of how that dynamic will change...how did your H chnage this?
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
