I understand what you are saying. And I see your point about the "little boy" comment, but I really do think its a possibility. My W and I had been going out for a month when she told me to was pregnant from one-nighter a month before we started going out. Two years into our relationship she got pregnant. She's always been very irresponsible when it comes to birth control so I actually thought it was a possiblity. Maybe I could have brought it up at a better time.
You are right about celebrating successful interactions. I do focus on that or at least try to. Thanks.
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)